Many people doesnt agree to early marriage...

They says, marriage is totally diff from dating...
They says, having children at a young age will be a headache...
They says, i am still young, young, YOUNG... (when 2 yrs later i will be 21?)
They says, i shouldnt be tied down by marriage at a young age...
They says, i will regret marrying early...

But i'm really glad my parents aint the ones who says all these, they actually said the opp. (:

I agree marriage is totally diff from dating, lifestyle will change, everything will change, but we will remain the same to each other, wont be? be it early marriage or late marriage, sooner or later, it is still marriage...

Having children earlier, my mum can take care or even my ah ma can help us take care...

Basically, children are headache to parents throughout the growing process until one day they are able to think on their own what is good and bad. so it doesnt really matter if you give birth early or later.

And yes, i am young, now. but not 2 years later...

So what does it mean by tied down by marriage? no freedom? tied down by children? i think it is just another phase of life (:

I wont regret. Like my parents, they didnt regret! My mum married at 19, gave birth to me at 20. Soon, her daughter is getting married when she is just hitting 40. As long as the couple knows how to maintain the marriage, compromise, honest and trust, i believe all will work out well...

well, we will discuss this issue again... after 9 mths (: i wont be sure if i'll change my POV when i start working... hahaha.

and seriously, what is wrong with signing on?! why must people give negative comments? it's a career isnt it? those people should just shut up!


Bii ah... when you're not with me, i seems so much stronger. I'm not sad you're in ns. I'm so proud of you! (: i look forward to seeing you on 4th Oct my dear... i miss you, plenty.